No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it. -1 Corinthians 10:13

Haha I really need to correct my habit of suanning ppl or joking about them. I know that they know that I know that I'm just joking (bit of a tougue twister there o.0) but still words are harsher than any sticks and stones at times, depending on the mood of the person. I may not be realizing it but I maybe tearing people down by making a passing remark that I make everyday about the person, so I really gotta keep my toungue in check... Haish two of the hardest things in life you can control is probably your toungue and mind. I don't have to really explain the mind part to you guys, but the toungue... The person at the butt of the joke may not even be realizing it, but he/she may be losing self-confidence and self-esteem through every passing remark others make about them, thinking that its just a joke. Its okay at times when maybe you're having a bit of fun pokeing at each other, but its bad to overdo it... Just like me -.- I'm doing it so often that it even makes me irritating. I realized this after the church challenged us to affirm someone everyday. Thank them. Complement them. Inspire them by commenting on some area of potential that they exhibit. Celebrate who they are or who they can become... Thats what I'm told to do... Something that I'm failing at X= Good words and commendation can build up a person whereas a lousy remark can tear the person down... Thus is the power of Words that God has given us. So why use it to destroy when you can build? But if I do it just for the sake of fulfilling the quota of 'affirming someone everyday', it will be completely pointless cause if I affirm a person once but make fun of ten other person, then what use would this activity be? Haha so I hope that through this activity, I'll not only learn to see past people's problems and see the possibilities, but its also another step to making me a more mature boy (: Yea, so word of advice to all Christians (and non-Christians), we need to start seeing with Jesus' eyes. We need to stop tearing people down, and start caring for them by building them up.

Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path -Psalms 119:105